Saturday, 30 April 2011

Good News

Royal wedding..... OMG big deal... I have been complaining about it the whole week... which day is the wedding again? Friday 29/04/11
I asked the next day...Which day is the wedding? "FRIDAY!! Shannon i thought you know!!" a friend shouted at me... yes yes yes i knew but i don't...
"It is going to be a night mare to travel in London on the day..." a friend said... i then asked AGAIN"why?'  i was asking a punch on the face...
I went for it... OK... this is ridicules.. people are dying around the world, all British talks about is the wedding.... not only the British, half of the world watched the wedding, and some travelled just to be here... they even make a extra bank holiday for this wedding!!!!!!!
just an other relationship end up hearing the wedding bell.. OK a prince's wedding, he is not even the king!!! love and wedding is a big joke for me anyway.. because i just don't get it.... for me the most important 4 words in any marriage is " I'LL DO THE DISHES". I think what i found the most difficult with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but we must know how to live with a character.... I am difficult in both, so i never wish anyone will go through that with me...

Had a liter of new blood in my body yesterday.. woke up after a good night sleep, feel stronger!!! OK, lets catch up on what is going on around the world....went on Internet... almost every headline was about the wedding!!
"Damn i missed it............"i thought to myself with a bit of sarcasm... I didn't actually feel a bit of that Damn...

Then i cant help but turn on the TV, I watched the wedding replay, how can i not.. almost every channels was playing it... the pretty dress on Kate, the moment they kiss... the smile on every ones face,

I SMILED.....

There are way too many bad news now days, its troubling, and worrying...you switch on the TV, its all about problems.... 2012 end of the world is a thought that's in my head slowly taken over everything.... Now why was i complaining so much over a simply happy wedding...

That one smile on Kate's face, tells millions of story.... she is not the most beautiful girl in the world, its not because she is beautiful so William loves her, its because William loves her makes her the most beautiful...

Passion makes the world go round, love just makes it a safer place....I was happy to see the wedding replay, i was even happier to read all the comment of how proud the Brits are in a day like this...  this is a good news for a change that's on telly, and it truely made million of people happy... why not?!!!

LITLLEMISSSUNSHINE
XXX






Tuesday, 26 April 2011

Stay On The Ground....

Sunny weekend in London, couldn't get better than this, lunch with the girls from work... some I know very well, but some just who I work with, bonding lunch Alex quoted.
It was such a great idea, even the weather decided to change just when the lunch ended... It starts to pour!! All good things must come to an end... the lunch was filled with love, laughter and joys, of course picking on Alex was the highlights!!!

So much of life in the elite night club, seeing all the beautiful people in blinks being greeted with VIP treatment from the hottest staff, with most expensive champagne flying in the room...I am very happy to know that me and my circle of friends are able to stay on the ground and be real...

THE GOOD THINGS in life, are not things...
Of course we all live in a society in which subjects are the only ones that are glorified. things such as  bags, shoes, cars, the amount of money we have, and other things tell some people who they are in society, truly if those are the only "good"things in a person's life then more than likely that person is not truly happy!!!

I'm going to Oslo for the weekend to spend sometime with Marte, I wanted to buy her fashion items she might love as a gift, in the end of the day girls like us, loves fashion... but instead Marte gave me a shopping list of salad sauce and snacks!!! that's it??? I asked myself..... and I smile.....
Marte, a beautiful girl who doesn't have a beautiful girls attitude! If there is character for her, she could be the bride in Kill Bill!! She is funny, loving, giving, driven and determine. straight forward and no bullshit.. people wont believe this is who she is by looking at her.. to today i still think she doesn't know how good she is just yet!!!
After living the colourful life of London, She had gone home in Oslo for her doctor career!She belongs to London city, she could flying high here with a different life to be with us, but she has chosen to stay on the ground...
Tough decision to make for a 24 yr old... but she did!!! and she is living by it everyday!!!

I want to get her some thing nice, don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with having nice things, I LOVE IT!! but nice things will give you a boost just like red bull, last for few hours few days... To me and Marte, the nicest thing that we have in life are the relationships we build with people, the love we are able to give and get back freely from and to the people that we care about. the positive impact we have on this world, the people we inspire and encourage, and the people who inspire and encourage us!!

Life in Asia, I often see picture of people convening on the ground, to work, to socialize and to eat. they are the people with strong roots in the earth, a Grounded-ness that appears both primal and noble at the same time, Marte has been traveling through Asia when she was young, I start to think as much a banana I am, yellow skin, white within.. she could be the other way round!!!

littlemisssunshine
xxx




Sunday, 24 April 2011

Belle et Sébastien

Belle Et Sebastien, one of my favourite Cartoon, I was watching it since the age of 5... a french one funny enough.. Its a sign!!! I should really learn to speak it!!

Enjoyed my Sat night in, chatting about life with a friend, He then use a funny way/ french way to describe bad friends, "they are like cigarettes, one day we will die from it" he is so right!! There are people out there pretend to be my friends to only get something out of me, I don't mind people like that, but what I'm doing wrong it is that i always too nice to people without look deeper and see further who i am being nice to.. then i get disappointed and upset when i realise i mean so little to them...but when i think about it, i say to myself, Shannon once you are nice to these people you instantly sent out a friendship invitation... its up to them to turn up in your circle make you see that if they care! some do but not all of them, you can't expect anything from them.. let your brain do the work, you are a lot of thing but not stupid for sure.
What i learnt since last 2 months, many people did upset me, A LOT, but what i have built from the last 27 years, from being who I am and nice to people, has bring me more happiness than sadness.. Keep the good and quit cigarette!!!

I cried many times with Belle Et Sebastien, a simple cartoon about a young boy Sebastien and his best friend a Mountain dog Belle.

Sebastian is a good natured, kind hearted and energetic young boy, Since he was born, he has been living with his adoptive grandad in a village on Pyrenees mountains in France. children in town tease him because he doesn't have a real mother, his deepest desires are to find his mother and to have a good friend.
Belle, is a large white dog who escaped into french countryside. She is gentle and warmhearted, but her attempts to help those in need are misunderstood. she is labeled " the white monster"
Sebastian has became best friend with Belle, and to save Belle from an unjust fate, Sebastian leaves his adoptive family and begins traveling with Belle. They have many adventures as they elude the police and search for Sebastian's Mother!
Both are carrying sadness but fully fill each others life by real friendship and the happiness that comes with it!!

Moral of the story from both mine and using Bella Et Sebastien is, To live our life is to suffer, although we have a choice in what we suffer. Self-discipline or Disappointment.. the choice is yours.. all in your head...

Littlemisssunshine
xx


Friday, 22 April 2011

GOODNEWS.COM: Not an other post about FRIENDS..

GOODNEWS.COM: Not an other post about FRIENDS..: "Unfortunately I have been moving from city to city since i was a baby, I have no memories of friends who I grow up with, or never given the ..."

Not an other post about FRIENDS..

Unfortunately I have been moving from city to city since i was a baby, I have no memories of friends who I grow up with, or never given the chance to get to know them.
Fortunately I had made friends along my city hooping life style, many many of them, what I'm trying to say here is that, I love meeting new friends, I love discover them, what I love the most its that bringing everyone together new and old!!!

So this post its all about NEW FRIENDS!!

Helena introduce myself to a loving group, I grow to love everyone of them in such different way, I was new, but i was accepted, wont say instantly, but i got there eventually, I am very different, but we all been make different in our own way, I found people always like to judge when they meet new people, but i say give a go, ask a question.. you might missing out a friend for life here.. I sure hope people who got to know me sees me differently, and choose to become my friends.
what makes it work for me with this group is that, there are same old dramas will happen to all of us, group dilemmas.. personality conflicts.. but when we all get together, with or without one or two glass of vino we always have a blast!! but vino always help!!!!!  hahaha....

Most of them has been so supportive since I've got ill... some came through more than a friend that i know for years.... they don't have to, but they did they do and they will always...with what i am going through made me to learn an old friend in a new way, and welcome only the real ones new or old.... when i find a group of friends like this i smile from the bottom of my heart!!! like i said to Marte who brought me a ticket to go to oslo to see her, to have friends like her and the friends i have here, illness just to balance out how lucky i am as a cow!!!!

A new friendship is like an unripened fruit, it may become either an orange or a lemon,in my case I love both, I find friendship more like Red wine, raw when new, ripened with age!!!! my favourite!!!

So for this new friendship I have, thank you my little mouse Helena!! without you i wouldnt be half greek and smiling like the way i am right now....

littlemisssunshine
xxxxx